The LORD says:

To be willing is an act of surrender.  "My will be
done" can only happen when the will of others
gets pushed aside and room is made for Me
to work.  The will of man does not compare to
what I have planned in My will.

Luke 22:42:
"Father, if it is Your will, take this cup away from
Me; nevertheless not My will, but Yours, be done."